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I have become active on a few groups at this time on social media, and I can tell you that it is amazing being part of groups that are so proud to be family Packs, Troops for girls, or supporters of both. I have found them to be a welcoming change from the negativity and sometimes awfulness some pages can be. The pages themselves are good, but the comments are more of my issue. When I look down through,
I get a sense that because girls are not always welcomed, they are held to a higher standard.
I found myself then reflecting that back onto my own Scouts, and honestly, that is not fair. I found myself getting critical about minor uniform infractions, and really pushing hard to make sure that at district events we did not stand out as not being true scouts. The realization that I have made over the last few months is that Scouting is different depending on the Troop you belong to. I started reflecting on the Scout Law, and Oath. The saying is not "A Scoutmaster is..." The law starts with "A Scout is..." Also, on my honor, I will do my best, to do my duty, to God and my country." Nowhere in there is the need to feel that we have to go above and beyond simply because we are a female Troop.
As a youth lead organization, I am there to help guide leaders. To teach young people, what it means to lead, succeed, even fail, reassess, and try again. When looking at what we are doing, and to determine if we are being successful we need to not necessarily look at advancement or merit badges. There seems to be a push to get every one of our female scouts to Eagle, sometimes as quickly as possible. I understand that if you were old in 2019 and aging out is a real possibility, pushing younger scouts at a fast pace can be counterproductive. We need to remember to allow our female scouts to grow and develop as they are ready. We are there to guide them and assist them. The best way for our leaders to assist these scouts is to keep scouting fun.
We have a framework - I have taken these directly from the BSA website. They are all important, and no one should be seen as more important, and none of these should be a barrier to the program.
The methods by which the aims are achieved are listed below in random order to emphasize the equal importance of each.
Ideals – The ideals of Scouting are spelled out in the Scout Oath, the Scout Law, the Scout motto, and the Scout slogan. - Remember the Scouts are to look at themselves and compare only themself to the ideals. We can teach the meanings, but the Scout must come to understand where they stand.
Patrols – This is a basic block, it teaches leadership, and democratic principles. Since Scouts only allowed girls for 3 years now, we must also understand that some Troops may only just now finally have older scouts that are ready to begin this process. We must realize that they may need a little extra guidance. It is okay if the adult leaders have a bit of a stronger hand right now. As the adults may still be operating as the model to teach our younger scouts. As soon as possible, transition to youth-led troops should be accomplished, but to do so at the cost of ensuring quality programming should be considered. Much like any goal, there are steps. Ensure you are working towards the goal, and if you need to take it in steps that is okay. You may show up at a council event and not be the model at this time, and that is okay, and not a point of shame. Don't project your desire for appearance to interfere with the process.
Outdoor Programs – Scouting is designed to take place outdoors. I know this is not a general truth, but the biggest draw for my own child was the difference in what GSA and BSA were doing. Outdoor programs are vital to differentiate ourselves. Also, remember that outdoor programs does not mean we have to do an episode of "Survivor Man" every time we go out. We can teach scouts to enjoy the outdoors in a comfortable manner, and also have some more challenging events. Again, we are making leaders using the outdoors, we do not have to make the next Survivor Man.
Advancement – Scouting provides a series of surmountable obstacles and steps in overcoming them through the advancement method. I cannot stress the importance enough to let the scouts learn the importance and feel the pride in advancement. Holding female youth to the standards is important, its how they grow, and they will begin to feel the pride of their work.
Association with Adults – Scouts learn a great deal by watching how adults conduct themselves. I cannot stress this one enough. Too many times I have had to be part of uncomfortable conversations with other adults. The girls are looking to you. I will vigorously defend our right to be here. I choose to be the ASM, because I find it important for the girls to see a strong woman leading, and how a man can gladly support that.
Personal Growth – As Scouts plan their activities and progress toward their goals, they experience personal growth. As our scouts' progress, they grow. They are met with challenges and setbacks, and they learn.
Leadership Development – The Scouting program encourages Scouts to learn and practice leadership skills. Every Scout has the opportunity to participate in both shared and total leadership situations. Shared success and failure are key to growth.
Uniform – The uniform makes the Scout troop visible as a force for good and creates a positive youth image in the community. I have seen a lot of arguments over the uniform. I think that this is not a defined issue, and is an issue of leadership in the Troop. I think that when scouts are in the community they need their uniforms, this identifies who we are. The uniform is an opportunity to teach the scouts about appropriate dress, and how to dress for the occasion. We as adult leaders need to guide SPL's on how to convey this message. Many of us work in an environment that has a dress code, or expectation, but there are reasons to dress down, there are reasons to dress up. We can teach our scouts about this through the use of the uniform. With that being said, the uniform should not be a barrier to Scouting.

I stress the uniform as being a barrier because it is not a cheap investment. Shirt and Pants - $80 - before patches. With all needed patches and items, a scout uniform is easily $125+, and if you are a parent wanting to volunteer double that. I will never forget the sticker shock when I became an ASM and my daughter crossed over. Within our first month of scouting, between registrations, summer camp, 2 camping trips, and uniforms, BSA was a $1000 investment. So if you are starting a new troop, you may consider how to slowly build up your uniform, a fundraiser for the girls to work to earn the money, time for parents to slowly amass the pieces, a chance to find donations. Being "uniform" is important, but the uniform should not be a barrier.
We are successful as leaders when a Scout walks out of the weekly meeting, a better, more productive person than when they walked in. Eagle is not the only measure of success. I wanted to share something I came across this week from my Woodbadge counselor,
This person did not need to earn Eagle to make a difference in the world with the confidence, and skills they were taught by a committed leader.
“There is no teaching to compare with example.” - Baden Powell
We are the example.